Tip #2 – Don’t Over Touch Don’t become Pokey The Bear … As a general rule, short, fleeting touches lasting 1-2 seconds show interest and help sound the foundation for more.But you don’t have to punctuate every sentence with a knee-tap or shoulder brush; being the “overly touchy guy” once again triggers those red flags. When touching a woman, stick to the shoulders, upper arms and the upper back area.That could just be the way she is, or maybe she is one of those flirtatious types.Either way, what is the worst that could happen if you ask her out? How can I make physical contact on a first date without creeping her out? Dear How About We: I’ve been told that touching is important if I want to make a connection, but I’m worried about being too forward.…I just don’t think flirting / kissing alone can get you further into a relationship — communication, “chemistry,” interests, goals, etc.
Each of them needs to define what it means to them.
Kissing and cuddling while in a Christian dating relationship, Pastor Jim shares his thoughts about physical contact while dating. Aside: We have more than a few testimonials (including Carolyn and Marty – “Our first kiss was at the altar” – and Veronique and Thomas – “And, yes, that [wedding] day we exchanged our very first kiss on the lips”) of couples who waited until their wedding day to have their first kiss. Today I received an email asking whether or not kissing and cuddling are considered a sin.
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Physical contact is just one way of expressing interest.
There are many other telltale signs that you have to look for.